Issues, Theories, and Research. The most frequent configuration is a triad or a vee. Staff writer. Views Read Edit View history. Fyi people So, that rocks, and I commend you for knowing yourself well enough to know what you want. These people are beyond delusional.
And it can be a viable choice for you!
If it got really bad, sure, I would delete some so it wouldn't damage the spirit of mutual, open-minded conversation. Archives of Sexual Behavior. And those rules can and do shift over time so we check in with each other to see how the other is doing and make changes if need be. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to be one of them, sharing the person I love with anyone else, but it's a fascinating although scary concept. But she knew I liked men, and has since allowed us to experience things together. My partner approves of those we hook up with together and I approve as well.