This type of thinking happens to protect our ego and from getting hurt. However, in her opinion: What all this does is tie your behaviors with your intent, something that makes a helluva lot of sense to the sort of man you want to be with. Finding the right man is half the battle, and the last thing you want to do is waste any more time. Did you know that men have an ideal attention-span time?
Just don't be creepy about it.
Dating Advice: the DOs and DON'Ts of Having the "What Are We?" Talk