Also keep in mind that there are "numerous" people who prefer to do their surfing cloaked. You're one of the exceptions. Based on many of the emails I've received, it seems like many men write based solely on physical attraction and aren't paying much attention to what I've said. I was told they took it off because it made some people nervous. My suggestion is to be open to people.
As a woman, I understand what is being said by the men above.
Dating websites - the favorite list
If someone has me on their mutual favorites and never correspond with me, then yes, I delete them from the list. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing I also learned NOT to message the guys I find attractive. I can only thank you and the women of the Inner Circle. I personally dont use it here. Dating best, long term second, friends third, hang out last. Please, we are coming into the year